Break ups !!
Now you might be wondering why am I writing my 1st post on break ups! Well more than half the population is suffering from heartaches, heartbreaks, etc. There are so many posts, books, links that blabber on how to cope with heartbreak, how to get over someone, how to get back at the person and even on how to get the person back. But none of these talk about the real pain, feelings of a person involved. None of it provides you the motivation to get on with your life, live it beautifully because it's your life. And no, I haven't had any break ups, I just like motivating people to be themselves.So, what could be better for my 1st post than a motivational speech.
When you undergo a heartbreak, the world seems to be shattered, nothing else in the world matters and somehow your world seems to be revolving around just one person.. the same moron who broke your heart. You stop eating, stop smiling, stop living your life. You use all means to check on how the person is living his/her life without you. Facebook, twitter and mutual friends are your spies now. All you think about is that one person... what he/she might be doing now ? Is he/she happy without you ? Is there anyway you can communicate with he/him and talk about your feelings ?
You go into that 'doormat' state where you are ready to compromise your self respect to the level just to get that one person to notice you.. rather pity you and take you, isn't it ?
Here's where I step in and tell you to stop all the begging and weeping and take control of your life. The person who didn't care enough to check on you on how you are doing, why waste your precious time and efforts on him/her. You are precious, you are amazing and you are beautiful. You deserve to be with someone who thinks you are a prince/princess. Who feels glad that you are a part of his life.
Your gloominess and irrational depressing mode breaks the people who actually love you. Those are your friends, teachers, siblings and your PARENTS. They don't deserve to see you in this state. Your smile, your happiness is all they long for. Last, but not the least, it's you who deserves to be happy. Not for anyone else, not for any other reason, but for yourself because you deserve it.
You are a powerful independent person with a beautiful heart that knows how to love. So take control of your life. Live, love, laugh and make the world dance to your tunes ! It's only one life...don't waste it in tears, for you never know tomorrow might never come.
Now you might be wondering why am I writing my 1st post on break ups! Well more than half the population is suffering from heartaches, heartbreaks, etc. There are so many posts, books, links that blabber on how to cope with heartbreak, how to get over someone, how to get back at the person and even on how to get the person back. But none of these talk about the real pain, feelings of a person involved. None of it provides you the motivation to get on with your life, live it beautifully because it's your life. And no, I haven't had any break ups, I just like motivating people to be themselves.So, what could be better for my 1st post than a motivational speech.
When you undergo a heartbreak, the world seems to be shattered, nothing else in the world matters and somehow your world seems to be revolving around just one person.. the same moron who broke your heart. You stop eating, stop smiling, stop living your life. You use all means to check on how the person is living his/her life without you. Facebook, twitter and mutual friends are your spies now. All you think about is that one person... what he/she might be doing now ? Is he/she happy without you ? Is there anyway you can communicate with he/him and talk about your feelings ?
You go into that 'doormat' state where you are ready to compromise your self respect to the level just to get that one person to notice you.. rather pity you and take you, isn't it ?
Here's where I step in and tell you to stop all the begging and weeping and take control of your life. The person who didn't care enough to check on you on how you are doing, why waste your precious time and efforts on him/her. You are precious, you are amazing and you are beautiful. You deserve to be with someone who thinks you are a prince/princess. Who feels glad that you are a part of his life.
Your gloominess and irrational depressing mode breaks the people who actually love you. Those are your friends, teachers, siblings and your PARENTS. They don't deserve to see you in this state. Your smile, your happiness is all they long for. Last, but not the least, it's you who deserves to be happy. Not for anyone else, not for any other reason, but for yourself because you deserve it.
You are a powerful independent person with a beautiful heart that knows how to love. So take control of your life. Live, love, laugh and make the world dance to your tunes ! It's only one life...don't waste it in tears, for you never know tomorrow might never come.
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